{"id":679,"date":"2017-01-29T14:40:16","date_gmt":"2017-01-29T20:40:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/?p=679"},"modified":"2017-01-29T14:40:16","modified_gmt":"2017-01-29T20:40:16","slug":"relationship-toolkit-3-conflict","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/2017\/01\/29\/relationship-toolkit-3-conflict\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Toolkit 3: Conflict"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here are a few books about conflict to check out:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Chapman, G. (2014). One More Try: What to do when your marriage is falling apart.<\/li>\n<li>Fisher, R. and W. Ury. (2011). Getting To Yes: Negotiating agreement without giving in.<\/li>\n<li>Stone, D., Patton, B., &amp; S. Heen. (2010). Difficult Conversations: How to discuss what matters most.<\/li>\n<li>Sande, K. (2004). The Peacemaker: A biblical guide to resolving personal conflict.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Additional Resources:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Teri Reisser, marriage and family therapist, writes an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.focusonthefamily.com\/marriage\/communication-and-conflict\/when-you-and-your-spouse-cant-agree\">article<\/a> about her personal experience with marital conflict.<\/li>\n<li>Gary Chapman briefly speaks on the importance of understanding your spouse&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.focusonthefamily.com\/marriage\/communication-and-conflict\/mastering-your-spouses-love-language\">love language<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>A guest blogger on Gary Thomas&#8217; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.garythomas.com\/talk-so-spouse-can-hear\/\">blog<\/a> shares tips to speak clearly and effectively with your spouse.<\/li>\n<li>Gary Thomas gives a few <a href=\"http:\/\/www.garythomas.com\/conversation-starters-for-married-couples\/\">conversation starters<\/a> for married couples.<\/li>\n<li>In a twist, a guest author at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/05\/22\/fashion\/marriage-breakups-separation.html\">New York Times<\/a> talks about her desire to have conflict with her husband.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are a few books about conflict to check out: Chapman, G. (2014). One More Try: What to do when your marriage is falling apart. Fisher, R. and W. Ury. (2011). Getting To Yes: Negotiating agreement without giving in. Stone, D., Patton, B., &amp; S. Heen. (2010). Difficult Conversations: How to discuss what matters most. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12577,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[152402],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationship-toolkit"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12577"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=679"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/679\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":687,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/679\/revisions\/687"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.acu.edu\/family-first\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}