It is hard to comfort a person who is grieving and it can be hard to find the right words to say after a person passes away.

Here are tips to help comfort a loved one:

  • It can be tempting to ramble, but the most important thing is to let them know that they are being supported.
  • Say something along the lines of, “I wish I had the words, just know that I care.”
  • Bring food to the family
  • Send sympathy cards
  • Send flowers and gift. These small gesture shows that you care.
  • Remind them that the grieving process takes time.
  • Be a good listener. Listen to the person’s feelings and let them know that it is okay to feel this way.
  • Do not give advice because it can make the person feel worse.
  • Never avoid the person who is grieving. This can be seen as hurtful and the person really needs support during this difficult time.