I’ve always loved Aristotle. I’ve read up on some of his work, in and out of a wonderful Intro to Philosophy class I took. What I particularly enjoy are his ideas on how crucial happiness is to life. He asserts that the search for happiness is the most important part of our lives; however, he does not mean “happiness” in a selfish or pleasure-seeking way. It’s more of a way of trying to accomplish a full life of fulfilled potential, and his term for it is “eudaimonia”.
What really interested me in his discussions of happiness was his reasoning about the central role of priorities. Aristotle posited that every goal or area in our lives tends to contribute to a greater one; in theory, all these goals contribute to our overall happiness. Happiness is the only thing that does not lend to anything else; we may do a lot of things in order to achieve happiness, but our intent in achieving happiness is happiness itself. What I take from this is that, if my goals lead to each other, and they all lead to my personal happiness, any unhappiness I encounter may be due either to a failed goal or to the fact that my goals are out of order.
Yes, I realize it’s a confusing set up, but hang with me here. The point is that priorities are crucial. This may not sound like news, but sometimes the things that seem like they should be high priority fail because other things need to come first. For instance, I may place occupational security high on the list, ahead of personal interests or or social life, but if I am not happily interested in my job, or it causes me to spend inadequate amounts of time with those I love, it does not matter how financially secure I am–my career will fail me.
At this point in my life, as I approach graduation in May, I am taking this to heart. I am focusing on reordering my goals to reflect the ends I really want to achieve, taking into account areas of my life that have been up to this point rather neglected.
I guess one thing that bothers me about Aristotle, though, is that he saw happiness as limited to this lifetime; there is no afterlife in his philosophy. However, I do feel that Christianity can be very easily embedded into his ideas. Certainly, the idea of disordered priorities applies in my spiritual walk; for a while now my prayer life has taken a back seat to graduate school applications, part-time jobs, relationships, and school work. How will any of those things make me happy if they do not reflect God’s will for my life? If I get things back in the right order and put God first, I’m much more likely to find joy in future endeavors.
Aristotle also brought up another intriguing idea–the “Golden Mean.” This involves doing and having everything in moderation, with no extremes and much control. I really do think he is on to something there, and I think it is an idea worth living by. I’ve attached a link relating this concept to StarWars, which sounds ridiculous but actually works.
Lastly, I just love this quote in relation to this subject: “Happiness is the settling of the soul into its most appropriate spot.”— Aristotle
Alison on General Thoughts on Psychology...
11:35 pm, 05.02.11
I plan on being a counselor, and although I really want to draw from multiple schools of thought, I’ve always identified most with existential and cognitive-behavioral therapy. I think this is because they seem to be “smart” therapies–they both encourage the client to take responsibility in their therapy and learn about themselves. They take work and serious thought for both the therapist and client, but both show extremely positive results.
Alison on Thoughts on Carl Rogers Theory
11:28 pm, 05.02.11
I absolutely agree with you that Carl Rogers is a breath of fresh air in the way that he emphasizes relationship and de-emphasizes criticism and control. However, I’ve always been a little frustrated with the complete lack of direction in his sessions–I’ve watched the entire Gloria video and couldn’t help but think that although in general a non-directive approach can be extremely helpful in guiding clients to find their own answers, sometimes they need a little push, and direction can help this.
Alison on The Unconscious
11:24 pm, 05.02.11
This reminds me of the Maslanka talk we listened to last Wednesday. The composer talked in depth about his own experiences in exploring his unconscious self. Although at times I felt like the things he was saying got a little new-agey and questionable, mostly what I took from it was that the mind is a very powerful thing, and that there is so much to tap in to that we usually ignore.
However, who knows how much of this we’ll be able to actually measure. I’d like to think that as our understanding grows and our technology improves, there will be some way to pin this down more.
Alison on Carl Rogers was right on the money
11:19 pm, 05.02.11
I think this idea of congruence and being “real” with people has proven true time and time again. After all, when we’re being fake and insincere, how can we expect a real and sincere reaction? I also think that this is important to remember in our Christian lives as well as our professional lives. Clearly, pointing out people’s faults and waving a banner of self-righteousness isn’t working to change people’s hearts. Maybe we should admit the truth to people–that we are broken, and imperfect. That we are helpless to earn our way to heaven. And that Jesus knows all that, and having “unconditional positive regard” (read: unconditional love) for us, saved us anyway.
Alison on Intelligence Testing
11:53 pm, 03.21.11
I definitely agree that intelligence testing is sadly lacking in both accuracy and, in fact, validity. Who’s to say what those tests are actually measuring? Someone mentioned test anxiety, which would definitely ruin the results; but even with a perfect test taker, there still remains the issue of defining what exactly intelligence is and how we can possibly measure it. Like Brady said, IQ tests do nothing for measuring other intelligences, which may be just as, if not more, important than what basically amounts to book smarts.
Alison on Habits and Instincts
11:46 pm, 03.21.11
This reminds me of the passage in Romans 12 about not conforming to the pattern of the world–in fact, your whole post brought to mind the things the Bible says about being in the world but not of the world. This struggle, this counter-cultural resistance in the face of instincts, negative environments, and bad habits is something to be constantly aware of. Thanks to you and William James for the reminder to always be aware of the influences around us.
Alison on Expression of Emotions
11:39 pm, 03.21.11
I love the idea that regardless of language barriers, you can still recognize a smile on another person’s face. The universality of emotions suggests to me a common ground that is encouraging to me in a world full of discord and differences. When you get down to it, we all feel joy and pain and fear–and we can recognize it in others.
Alison on Evolutionary psychology/siiiike-ology
11:33 pm, 03.21.11
I agree; it’s hard to agree with a concept that is so reductionistic. Evolutionary psychology takes all of the choices that we agonize over and explains them away with instinctual and animalistic explanations. There may be some habits and instincts that are more basic, but there are also so many complex things we say and do that can’t possibly be due to those basic things. I also find it hard to find a place for altruism in this philosophy; plus, how do Jesus’ teachings of loving one’s enemy and turning the other cheek fit into evolutionary psychology? Those responses certainly are not helpful in terms of survival or passing on genetics. Yes, acting like that is rather counterintuitive, but the fact that he calls us to do so anyway–and that many succeed–is indicative of bigger things going on than survival of the fittest.
Alison on God is Dead
11:14 pm, 02.21.11
Nietzsche was quite the atheist, and his use of the “Death of God” idea was really more in reference to values being overthrown. He basically decided that since Christian values were no longer a good foundation, the new value system should be based on the idea of “will to power”; that everyone at their core just wants power, and they should do whatever it takes to get it. Not sure if I’m crazy about all of Nietzche’s ideas.
Alison on Rousseau & Education
11:05 pm, 02.21.11
I kind of like the idea of prescriptive education; that’s a great analogy. In schools, we could help a lot more kids by seeing how they learn and trying to understand what makes them tick than putting everyone through the same inflexible programs. For special education programs, each student has what is called an IEP (Individualized Education Program) that plays to their strengths. I see a little of Rousseau’s influence there.