Redemption & unconditional positive regard
Carl Roger’s theory to avoid imposing conditions of worth on people has to do with unconditional positive regard. With unconditional positive regard, people are loved and respected for what they truly are – therefore there is no need for certain experiences to be denied or distorted (p.557). This reminds me much of redemption. When Jesus redeem came to redeem the world, he knew our experiences, our sin, and even our future failures, yet he still chose to die for us. He loves us for who we are, and therefore there is no need to deny certain experiences – we bring them to him, allow them to be exposed, and he washes them clean. It is one of my favorite parts of Christianity – there is no denying what has happened our lives, yet we acknowledge them and put them at the foot of the cross – and out of that place we receive an undeserved love. Jesus is the ultimate one who showed unconditional positive regard, and I think Carl Rogers was on to something when he stated that it is the only way to avoid labeling people and determining their worth. It is why without Jesus, it is so difficult to accept, love, and even see people for who they truly are. Through redemption, we first receive this unconditional love, and out of that place we are able to give it to other people.
Rebecca McQueen on Carl Rogers
2:12 pm, 12.02.13
I agree! Jesus became the ultimate solution to addressing people’s desires. It seems as if Carl Rogers was onto something by addressing the individual and the world surrounding them – as people do have deep desires that psychology often stops before addressing.
Rebecca McQueen on Transpersonal Psychology and redemption
2:08 pm, 12.02.13
Dang Zach! That was awesome – you’re completely right, there is true freedom in believing in who HE says you are and accepting that the cross is enough! If all of ACU came to this realization, things would look dramatically different.
Rebecca McQueen on Not Just A Kanye West Song
2:04 pm, 12.02.13
I liked this post Irene (and the title too)! I think you made some good points – I also think it’s interesting that we have become so accustomed to being comfortable here in America. It seems like a good plan of the enemy – to make us feel entitled to being comfortable… I wonder what we would look like if we understood true persecution in a deeper way?
Rebecca McQueen on Breaking habits & Redemption
10:08 pm, 11.17.13
Somebody was listening in church today!
Rebecca McQueen on Modeling and Fall
10:07 pm, 11.17.13
Very interesting post! I really liked the way you thought about this! I think it can also be said of sinful habits throughout generations in families – as one member may sHabitually struggle with something, this is often passed down to the next generation unless it is broken
Rebecca McQueen on Knowing there is a God
10:03 pm, 11.17.13
I liked what you said about this! His concepts make me wonder how we ever know what reality is, though. It’s almost like the new age stuff that is becoming popular in the world these days – how all roads lead to god or whatever you want to believe becomes your truth
Rebecca McQueen on Creation - John B. Watson
9:57 pm, 11.17.13
I think that it’s such a good plan of the enemy to make us unaware of the war, too. We’re constantly being formed by the things around us – I think it should remind us that there’s a world far more real than what we physically see – and ultimately it has a greater impact
Rebecca McQueen on Therapeutic redemption
10:38 pm, 11.02.13
Very interesting view Levi, and I agree with a lot of it! I liked the connection you made between psychoanalytic therapy and a church camp experience. Using Freud as an example helps show that it’s almost as if something is hardwired into man for redemption.
Rebecca McQueen on Gestalt and Redemption
10:32 pm, 11.02.13
I agree, I liked this view. It makes sense that the Holy Spirit is called the Counselor 🙂
Rebecca McQueen on Munsterberg and community
10:28 pm, 11.02.13
I really liked this!! I completely agree – the Lord has specifically given each person something that they can THRIVE in, and empowering people to walk in those gifts is vital in advancing the Kingdom.